Be Quiet Negotiator

Be Quiet Negotiator is a client-side NeoForge mod that lets you connect to vanilla or non-NeoForge servers by silently skipping NeoForge handshake negotiation, preventing common handshake errors and enabling smoother connections.

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About this Mod

Be Quiet Negotiator

Be Quiet Negotiator is a lightweight, client-side-only NeoForge mod that lets modded clients connect to vanilla or
minimally modded servers (such as Fabric servers with only server-side mods) without triggering NeoForge’s
strict network negotiation process.

How it works

Normally, NeoForge enforces a handshake protocol to ensure both client and server agree on modded payloads and
capabilities. This mod quietly suppresses that negotiation when connecting to servers that don’t speak NeoForge,
allowing the connection to go through cleanly without disconnects or errors — hence, it “negotiates” by staying silent.

In addition, other errors that may occur during the connection process, such as packet decoding errors
or unexpected packet sizes, are also ignored, allowing the client to connect without issues.

Specifically, Be Quiet Negotiator uses Mixins to patch the NeoForge client code, specifically targeting any annoying
methods which produce errors or disconnects when connecting to servers that do not support NeoForge.

Furthermore, all patches are configurable, allowing users to enable or disable specific patches as needed.

Use cases

This mod is ideal for:

  1. Players using NeoForge clients who want to join vanilla servers, preventing disconnects caused by missing network negotiation responses.
  2. Players connecting through hybrid or proxy networks, where the entrypoint is a vanilla or non-NeoForge server, avoiding failed handshakes when the client expects NeoForge.
  3. Modpack developers or testers using full-stack NeoForge mods client-side, who want to connect to unmodded or differently modded servers without having to disable mods each time.
  4. Players attempting to join servers without NeoForge, while still having mods installed that expect a modded server-side (e.g., worldgen, item, or GUI mods with networking).
  5. LAN or casual multiplayer setups, where only the client is running NeoForge with full-feature mods, and the server is unmodded or running a different mod loader.

Making a production-ready proxy network?

Do not use this mod! You will likely run into issues with mod compatibility, as Be Quiet Negotiator just suppresses errors
and does not magically make incompatible mods work.

Instead of using a traditional proxy to route connections to backend servers, I recommend giving each NeoForge server
its own public IP address / domain.

If you don't have enough IP addresses, you can use a reverse proxy like
Gate Lite Mode or my own mc-router
to route connections based on the Handshake packet's Server Address field.

To transfer players between servers, use the vanilla /transfer command introduced in Minecraft 1.20.5, or install the
Server Redirect mod.

Included Patches (since v1.0.1)

  • bypassNegotiationErrors - Allows the client to connect to servers that do not support NeoForge by ignoring negotiation errors.
  • bypassCustomFeatureFlags - Ignores custom feature flags when connecting to a server, allowing the client to connect without issues.
  • ignorePacketDecodingErrors - Ignores packet decoding errors when connecting to a server, allowing the client to connect without issues.
  • ignorePacketHandlerErrors - Ignores client-side packet handling errors when connecting to a server, allowing the client to connect without issues.

Important notes

Connection Safety

Be Quiet Negotiator is safe by design: it only activates when the server is identified as non-NeoForge, leaving
normal modded-to-modded connections completely untouched. Configuration is simple and toggleable, giving users fine
control over when quiet negotiation is allowed.

Mod Compatibility

Some mods may depend on successful negotiation or expect server-side support for certain features. In these cases, functionality may break silently or result in confusing behaviour.

Use caution, and avoid placing or interacting with modded blocks, items, or GUIs on servers that aren’t running NeoForge. This mod enables connection compatibility, but it cannot make incompatible mods magically work.

We have a list of known incompatible mods in docs/incompatibility.md.

Available Versions

Release 1.0.4release
MC 1.21.1neoforge
January 3, 2026
Release 1.0.3release
MC 1.21.1neoforge
November 2, 2025
Release 1.0.2release
MC 1.21.1neoforge
August 6, 2025
Release 1.0.1release
MC 1.21.1neoforge
August 4, 2025
Be Quiet Negotiator 1.0.0release
MC 1.21.1neoforge
April 14, 2025

How to Install Be Quiet Negotiator on Your Server

1

Order Server

Order a Minecraft Java server with at least 3 GB RAM (4 GB recommended).

2

Set neoforge Loader

In the panel under "Egg", select the neoforge loader and matching Minecraft version (1.21.11).

3

Install Mod

Open the mod browser in the dashboard and search for "Be Quiet Negotiator". Click "Install" – done! Alternatively, upload the .jar via SFTP to the /mods folder.

Compatibility

Mod Loaders

neoforge

Minecraft Versions

1.21.11, 1.21.8, 1.21.2 (+1 more)

Server-side

Unsupported

Recommended RAM

4 GB(min. 3 GB)

Frequently Asked Questions

Be Quiet Negotiator server crashes on startup – what to do?

Most common cause: wrong neoforge version or insufficient RAM. Check the server log (latest.log) for "OutOfMemoryError" or "Mixin" errors. With Mado Hosting: ensure at least 3 GB RAM is allocated and the loader matches the mod version (1.21.11). You can switch loaders with one click in the panel.

Is Be Quiet Negotiator compatible with neoforge?

Be Quiet Negotiator officially supports neoforge for Minecraft 1.21.11, 1.21.8, 1.21.2. The Mado dashboard automatically detects incompatible loader combinations.

Server lagging with Be Quiet Negotiator – how to optimize performance?

Recommended RAM: 4 GB (per 8 players). Use /spark profiler to check if Be Quiet Negotiator consumes the most tick time. Common fixes: reduce server view-distance to 8-10, install "performant" or "starlight" as supplementary mods on Forge. With Mado Hosting, your server runs on NVMe SSDs with dedicated CPU cores for minimal latency.

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Details

License
GNU General Public License v3.0 or later
Server-side
Unsupported

Supported Versions

1.21.111.21.81.21.21.21.1