Hug & Marry

Hug & Marry

Adds hugging, marriage, and relationship mechanics to Minecraft servers.

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Screenshots

/hug
Marriage Request
Marriage Confirmation
Chat Prefix

About this Mod

Hug & Marry – Social Interactions & Relationships

Hug & Marry is a server-side mod/plugin that adds social interactions and relationship mechanics to Minecraft.

Available for both Fabric and PaperMC, it brings lightweight social features to multiplayer servers without requiring any client-side installation.

From simple hugs to marriage requests, chat hearts, and optional private couple commands, Hug & Marry makes player interaction feel more personal and connected.


Features

  • /hug – Hug the nearest player
  • /hug top – View the players with the most hugs
  • /marry <player> – Send a marriage request
  • /marry accept / /marry deny – Accept or decline marriage requests
  • Marriage System – Players can marry, divorce, and manage their relationship
  • Marriage Info – Shows partner, since-date, and PvP status
  • PvP Toggle – Control PvP between married players
  • Chat Hearts – Married players get a heart prefix in chat
  • Private Commands – /kiss and /cuddle can be enabled for one configured pair
  • Admin Commands – /marry list [page], /marry info <player>
  • Persistent Data – Marriage data is saved across restarts
  • Optional Hug Regeneration – Can be disabled in the config
  • Configurable Private Commands – Can be disabled entirely or limited to one specific pair
  • Improved Command Autocomplete
  • Available for Fabric & PaperMC (1.21 - 1.21.11)

Perfect for

  • Survival servers
  • Roleplay communities
  • Friend groups
  • Servers focused on social interaction

Hug & Marry brings players closer together. Literally.

Available Versions

Hug & Marry 1.1release
MC 1.21, 1.21.1, 1.21.2, 1.21.3, 1.21.4, 1.21.5, 1.21.6, 1.21.7, 1.21.8, 1.21.9, 1.21.10, 1.21.11fabric
May 18, 2026
Hug & Marry 1.0release
MC 1.21, 1.21.1, 1.21.2, 1.21.3, 1.21.4, 1.21.5, 1.21.6, 1.21.7, 1.21.8, 1.21.9, 1.21.10, 1.21.11fabric
April 19, 2026
Hug & Marry 1.0release
MC 1.21, 1.21.1, 1.21.2, 1.21.3, 1.21.4, 1.21.5, 1.21.6, 1.21.7, 1.21.8, 1.21.9, 1.21.10, 1.21.11paper
April 17, 2026

How to Install Hug & Marry on Your Server

1

Order Server

Order a Minecraft Java server with at least 3 GB RAM (4 GB recommended).

2

Set fabric Loader

In the panel under "Egg", select the fabric loader and matching Minecraft version (1.21.11).

3

Install Mod

Open the mod browser in the dashboard and search for "Hug & Marry". Click "Install" – done! Alternatively, upload the .jar via SFTP to the /mods folder.

Compatibility

Mod Loaders

fabricpaper

Minecraft Versions

1.21.11, 1.21.10, 1.21.9 (+9 more)

Server-side

Unsupported

Recommended RAM

4 GB(min. 3 GB)

Frequently Asked Questions

Hug & Marry server crashes on startup – what to do?

Most common cause: wrong fabric version or insufficient RAM. Check the server log (latest.log) for "OutOfMemoryError" or "Mixin" errors. With Mado Hosting: ensure at least 3 GB RAM is allocated and the loader matches the mod version (1.21.11). You can switch loaders with one click in the panel.

Is Hug & Marry compatible with fabric and paper?

Hug & Marry officially supports fabric, paper for Minecraft 1.21.11, 1.21.10, 1.21.9. The Mado dashboard automatically detects incompatible loader combinations.

Server lagging with Hug & Marry – how to optimize performance?

Recommended RAM: 4 GB (per 8 players). Use /spark profiler to check if Hug & Marry consumes the most tick time. Common fixes: reduce server view-distance to 8-10, install "performant" or "starlight" as supplementary mods on Forge. With Mado Hosting, your server runs on NVMe SSDs with dedicated CPU cores for minimal latency.

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Details

License
LicenseRef-All-Rights-Reserved
Server-side
Unsupported

Supported Versions

1.21.111.21.101.21.91.21.81.21.71.21.61.21.51.21.41.21.31.21.2+2 more