
Hug & Marry
Adds hugging, marriage, and relationship mechanics to Minecraft servers.
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About this Mod
Hug & Marry – Social Interactions & Relationships
Hug & Marry is a server-side mod/plugin that adds social interactions and relationship mechanics to Minecraft.
Available for both Fabric and PaperMC, it brings lightweight social features to multiplayer servers without requiring any client-side installation.
From simple hugs to marriage requests, chat hearts, and optional private couple commands, Hug & Marry makes player interaction feel more personal and connected.
Features
/hug– Hug the nearest player/hug top– View the players with the most hugs/marry <player>– Send a marriage request/marry accept//marry deny– Accept or decline marriage requests- Marriage System – Players can marry, divorce, and manage their relationship
- Marriage Info – Shows partner, since-date, and PvP status
- PvP Toggle – Control PvP between married players
- Chat Hearts – Married players get a heart prefix in chat
- Private Commands –
/kissand/cuddlecan be enabled for one configured pair - Admin Commands –
/marry list [page],/marry info <player> - Persistent Data – Marriage data is saved across restarts
- Optional Hug Regeneration – Can be disabled in the config
- Configurable Private Commands – Can be disabled entirely or limited to one specific pair
- Improved Command Autocomplete
- Available for Fabric & PaperMC (
1.21-1.21.11)
Perfect for
- Survival servers
- Roleplay communities
- Friend groups
- Servers focused on social interaction
Hug & Marry brings players closer together. Literally.
Available Versions
How to Install Hug & Marry on Your Server
Order Server
Order a Minecraft Java server with at least 3 GB RAM (4 GB recommended).
Set fabric Loader
In the panel under "Egg", select the fabric loader and matching Minecraft version (1.21.11).
Install Mod
Open the mod browser in the dashboard and search for "Hug & Marry". Click "Install" – done! Alternatively, upload the .jar via SFTP to the /mods folder.
Compatibility
Mod Loaders
Minecraft Versions
1.21.11, 1.21.10, 1.21.9 (+9 more)
Server-side
✗ UnsupportedRecommended RAM
4 GB(min. 3 GB)Frequently Asked Questions
Hug & Marry server crashes on startup – what to do?
Most common cause: wrong fabric version or insufficient RAM. Check the server log (latest.log) for "OutOfMemoryError" or "Mixin" errors. With Mado Hosting: ensure at least 3 GB RAM is allocated and the loader matches the mod version (1.21.11). You can switch loaders with one click in the panel.
Is Hug & Marry compatible with fabric and paper?
Hug & Marry officially supports fabric, paper for Minecraft 1.21.11, 1.21.10, 1.21.9. The Mado dashboard automatically detects incompatible loader combinations.
Server lagging with Hug & Marry – how to optimize performance?
Recommended RAM: 4 GB (per 8 players). Use /spark profiler to check if Hug & Marry consumes the most tick time. Common fixes: reduce server view-distance to 8-10, install "performant" or "starlight" as supplementary mods on Forge. With Mado Hosting, your server runs on NVMe SSDs with dedicated CPU cores for minimal latency.
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